Yes, I’m getting on the bandwagon. I’m allowed. Everyone else is.
What gets me, right, is these men who say “as the father of daughters…”. The people who say “there are parents out there who have the right to expect that their daughters can work in a safe environment”. All those people who say ” what if it was your daughter… sister…wife…mother…”
Because it seems like women are only to be respected if they belong to some man or other. Or men can only be expected to respect women if they happen to respect the women they “own”. It’s not language that suggests that women should be respected because they are human beings, because they deserve respect in their own right. It’s language that suggests that they only get respect because men permit it.
As the owner of a dog, I understand that you shouldn’t leave them alone for weeks at a time.
As the owner of a horse, I understand that you should drive slowly when you go past them on the road.
As the owner of a woman, I understand that you shouldn’t grab them by the pussy.
That’s what I’m hearing.
What I’d like to hear is:
As a human being, I understand that you shouldn’t seek to degrade or abuse other human beings. Simple as that.